This reminded me of a pattern that we see in other places too, and I was so inspired, I drew a comic to explain it:
Science has proven over and over and over and over again that there is a bias against women and other minorities. If you refuse to accept that, that is fine, but that means you are in the same category as anti-vaxxers, climate change deniers and those who think god made the earth 6000 years ago.
I get it! I understand it can be soothing to believe that God made the earth and is responsible for all suffering, so there is a reason. I get how it can be a relief to think vaccines cause autism, so there is something to blame other than having bad luck. I too understand how you really want to think that everyone is judged on merit, you and everyone else. Unfortunately though, that is not the truth.